The "D" Word

Has the "D" word come up in your fights? Or some variation of "maybe we shouldn't be together"?!

I know I've been there, and many of the women I've worked with have either said it or heard their man say it.

And it really hurts. It can be terrifying, honestly.

I don't think that's what you really want. I think the pain just gets unbearable. The pain of feeling that you just don't matter at all to your partner.

The pain of not feeling seen. Not feeling heard. Not feeling understood.

You just want to get through to him how much you need his love. His compassion. His care and concern for your feelings.

The yearning is so deep. To feel connected and safe. So deep, that somehow we end up in this crazy place of saying the most extreme things!

Maybe that will get his attention. Except it doesn't. It only makes things worse.

You end up feeling more unsure of your connection! There's a good reason the "D" word comes up. And it's not your fault if you've said it.

To connection,

Heather

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