Feel Like You're Losing Him?
Does it feel like your partner is slipping further away from you?
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells, super cautious to not say or do anything that will cause him to pull away more.
The pain is immense, and it’s a lot to manage!
But on the other hand, you’re REALLY ANGRY because of how he’s hurting you.
That is a HUGE dilemma for you. To top it all off, you might even be wondering if he can ever be the partner you want! It may all be making you feel a bit crazy...
The danger for you in this situation is it’s way too easy to get stuck: you just keep going around and around with the racing thoughts, ruminating, analyzing every interaction between you, trying to figure out what exactly is wrong and how to fix it, not sleeping well, not able to focus at work...
You can’t resist the urge to TALK to him about what’s going on in an effort to FIX the problems between you. Except it backfires...
And then you’re right back to the worry and the pit in your stomach. Then angry again and exhausted that you have to go through all this!
So, what is the solution?
You may not like what I am going to say: YOU have to do something RADICALLY different whether you stay OR go.
If you’re thinking of going, if he’s been abusive, then please do.
If you know underneath all the fighting he’s fundamentally a kind person and you want to stay, you MUST take charge of the situation BY YOURSELF.
Right about now you may be saying, but Heather, I’VE DONE ALL *&%$# THE WORK! He needs to change!
I hear you, really I do.
Here’s where you have a critical choice: stop focusing on him and start focusing on YOU. The more you focus on him, the worse it gets (your relationship would be perfect it that weren’t true, right?!)
So, you have to decide that you’re going to make it work because YOU DESERVE LOVE, not because you think he should do more or because it doesn't feel fair.
If you had the connection you want, the tenderness, compassion, joy and passion, the FUN--who really cares how you got there?! Would it seriously make any difference?
When you take charge of transforming yourself, the beauty of it is that you get an amazing relationship, and you get a whole new you as well.
Sounds pretty damn good, right?!
If you’re ready to take charge of your relationship and your life right now, book a call with me.
I am excited to help YOU get the clarity you need, so you can just relax and finally enjoy life again!
Love,
Heather
P.S. This offer is NOT for everyone; it is only for women who are ready to have the life and marriage they want and are done being stuck in the negative spin cycle, done complaining about their partners and want clarity to take action.