Can Disconnection with Your Beloved Actually Be Good?!
The myth is that disconnection with your partner is always bad and ideally avoided at all costs.
The truth is that disconnection is inevitable AND a potent opportunity to grow.
It is impossible to be harmoniously connected 100% of the time! You’re two different people.
Your relationship is a mirror that reflects exactly how you need to grow. It shines a light onto your blind spots, whether you want it to or not…
Do you choose to see them, accept them and work on them?
For your sake, and for the sake of your relationship?
Do you take total responsibility for YOU?
This takes courage, vulnerability, humility, hard work and commitment to yourself, your partner.
It requires you to fully trust in love.
The better you manage the disconnection, soothing your own raw spots and rough edges, facing what you need to face, you'll become more secure and confident in yourself and your partner.
You’ll begin to see your partner’s pain and have more compassion for them. You’ll be able to repair more quickly and stay connected longer.
Disconnection can be your ally to deeper self-love and connection with your beloved.
Or it can remain a source of pain.
You get to choose.
To connection,
Heather